Thistleoak
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ok, I usually keep my private life on the DL, but I need some advice. I was previously married and filed for divorce when I found out my ex wife was cheating on me, when I did a background check on the guy.... I found out that he was a 3rd degree CSC and that she had him "Watching" my at the time two year old son. She then got arrested for distributing alcohol to a minor and while released on a PR bond got pulled over for drunk driving out of county. I filed for exparte and got temporary full custody, from there I got FULL PHYSICAL/LEGAL custody which I hold to this day. My son is my life. After 7 years of not getting a dime of child support from my exwife, she went to FOC and complained that she was tired of having supervised visitations so I get a letter in the mail and had to meet with the mediator. well she got her way. I still have full physical and legal custody, still dont get a cent of child support and she gets to see him unsupervised every sunday for 8 hrs. While our dear brother Zach aka GuitarmyFriend and his lovely dearest Michelle were at our house last night for dinner, my son got dropped off by the "Egg Doner" he says "dad look at this" raises his shirt and his stomach, chest and back are covered in ( turned out to be Flea bites) God knows what. I immediately thought the worst and Zach agreed it looked like the beginning of measles. I kept him out of school today and took him to the doctor. Dr W asked Aidyn a bunch of questions and found out that my ex wifes dog was scratching and biting itself and that in Aidyns words that "her house is icky and smells bad" I understand a kid having to see their other parent, but I feel like I am putting my son in a bad spot every time I have to drop him off there...I need to get a hold of the FOC but I'm not sure how I should do it... I am extremely upset and I dont want them thinking I am crazy if I lose my cool in front of them. Oh and the other sweet thing that happened. the Ex wife gave me an insurance card from her work and told me have the DR bill yours as the primary and mine as the secondary and it will cover the copay for the office visit... yeah that worked great... I just had to take the 60 bucks I had in my special account ( which was going toward a Dr. Grabow) and pay the last 4 copays. Hey I paid it, he is my son, but when I tell the exwife about it she says " well thats just part of being a parent... get over it" REALLY!!!!! REALLY!!!!!! so I asked her "What exactly do you know about being a good parent" and hung up.... sorry guys... just had to get the poison out of my system and vent.... BTW please keep an eye out for me ( insert joke about me missing my left eye zach) on the web for a rather inexpensive Dr. Grabow . Well thanks again for letting me get that ugliness off my chest