Cuervo25_1
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OK alot has happened since I was last on so where do I begin. I left my job at the Gas station due to conflict with other employees. I got fed up doing the work while the did nothing and the manager not doing anything about it. Shortly after I landed a job on a small farm that has primarly chickens, which I love alot. It brings me back to peace and the chickens for the most part are friendly and a few I can pick up and carry. I always thought that there was only a few egg colors ,white, creame and brown but I learned there is also chocolate brown, blue, and green.
There is also some double edged news on my son. In june we had to put him in the hospital in the mental health department because he got physicly violent with my wife. The whole time I was throwing a fit about the meds he was on probably being the problem Two of the meds he was on are well known for causing these issues. They thought that it just not a high enough dosage so we went awhile increasing his dosages, and switching meds and all sorts of stuff. Finally we got fed up found a different Dr. and she has everything under control. He has not had an explosive anger issue since.We also have a therapist that comes in once a week to talk to him and help him learn how to communicate properly. That is working really well also.
We send him to summer school because he is a special needs child and we don't want him forgetting how to do simple things. The neighbors teenage son also attends the same private school but in a seperate building for the high schoolers,however he rides the same bus. Well this kid done some bad things, my son tells my wife, which she told his parents and he got into trouble. That in turn made the kid mad enough to start threatening my son with violence. we removed my son from the bus, filed a report with the PD and notified the school. Since then my wife has been taking him to school. Today we had a meeting with the district special needs director, district psycologist, his schools director and counciler in hopes to get all this settled. It was difficult but I held my temper and just spoke clear, firm and bluntly. I told them my child has been through far too much as is,I will not tolerate him being bullied, and if they do not get an aide on the bus or another way for the other kid to get to school we will be notifying the county. I do not think that they was ready for that, they are use to my wife doing the talking while I mainly sit back and just chime in on occasion. They looked at my wife and asked if she had anything else to say , she told them that other than what I said we are prepaired to get our child advocate involved and our Lawyer if needs be.
Other than that he is doing real well in school, likes coming to the farm with me and playing with his legos and other normal boy things. He still has his ups and downs but it is nowhere as drastic and easier to calm him.
My wife finally has a court date for disability, her health is still on a decline. She just got out of the hospital yesterday because of complications due to her COPD. I read the letter to her over the phone that the Dr wrote to the Lawyer with the entire list of her health issues. All I have to say is if they do not give her disability I am going to jail because I am going to raise hell. just a few of the issues are COPD, muscle dystonia, and two other types of muscle issues. there are more just can't remember them all.
As for me my car died so I had to borrow money from my Grandmother to buy a "new" car. I found a 2001 jeep with 85k on it for $5900, turns out it has a brand new engine as well. I am also being trained to be an assistant manager at my main job, which is really cool. Other than that I have gained a few more white hairs, but not balding yet, still punching and kicking my way through life, and seems like things may turn out OK.
There is also some double edged news on my son. In june we had to put him in the hospital in the mental health department because he got physicly violent with my wife. The whole time I was throwing a fit about the meds he was on probably being the problem Two of the meds he was on are well known for causing these issues. They thought that it just not a high enough dosage so we went awhile increasing his dosages, and switching meds and all sorts of stuff. Finally we got fed up found a different Dr. and she has everything under control. He has not had an explosive anger issue since.We also have a therapist that comes in once a week to talk to him and help him learn how to communicate properly. That is working really well also.
We send him to summer school because he is a special needs child and we don't want him forgetting how to do simple things. The neighbors teenage son also attends the same private school but in a seperate building for the high schoolers,however he rides the same bus. Well this kid done some bad things, my son tells my wife, which she told his parents and he got into trouble. That in turn made the kid mad enough to start threatening my son with violence. we removed my son from the bus, filed a report with the PD and notified the school. Since then my wife has been taking him to school. Today we had a meeting with the district special needs director, district psycologist, his schools director and counciler in hopes to get all this settled. It was difficult but I held my temper and just spoke clear, firm and bluntly. I told them my child has been through far too much as is,I will not tolerate him being bullied, and if they do not get an aide on the bus or another way for the other kid to get to school we will be notifying the county. I do not think that they was ready for that, they are use to my wife doing the talking while I mainly sit back and just chime in on occasion. They looked at my wife and asked if she had anything else to say , she told them that other than what I said we are prepaired to get our child advocate involved and our Lawyer if needs be.
Other than that he is doing real well in school, likes coming to the farm with me and playing with his legos and other normal boy things. He still has his ups and downs but it is nowhere as drastic and easier to calm him.
My wife finally has a court date for disability, her health is still on a decline. She just got out of the hospital yesterday because of complications due to her COPD. I read the letter to her over the phone that the Dr wrote to the Lawyer with the entire list of her health issues. All I have to say is if they do not give her disability I am going to jail because I am going to raise hell. just a few of the issues are COPD, muscle dystonia, and two other types of muscle issues. there are more just can't remember them all.
As for me my car died so I had to borrow money from my Grandmother to buy a "new" car. I found a 2001 jeep with 85k on it for $5900, turns out it has a brand new engine as well. I am also being trained to be an assistant manager at my main job, which is really cool. Other than that I have gained a few more white hairs, but not balding yet, still punching and kicking my way through life, and seems like things may turn out OK.
