Nick Fox
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Sorry I've been gone so long brothers. I lost my Internet and wasn't able to keep it going. I landed a job at the local wallgreens on graveyard shift... and 2 weeks ago my world went to hell... my wife and I were in counceling and I thought things were getting better. I was at work sat night/sun morning and the cops came in to see me. They asked me if I was having family problems and that someone had called because they thought I was a danger to myself. I said I was fine. They left. I took my last break early and called Mrs Fox. She said she called them, when I asked why... she told me that when I got home, she wouldn't be there and she was taking the boy with her. I begged, pleaded and cried. She didn't change her mind. I left work early and got home to a ransacked appartment. I didn't sleep. Monday I got home to an inspection notice. I told the appartment manager what had happened, she said to clean as best I could but that if it wasn't clean enough I would get a 3 day eviction notice. Again I missed work and didn't sleep. I cleaned from 3:30pm mon to 7:30am ties. The inspection came at 8am. I failed... I slept for a couple hrs tues.
night went home wed morning to find a 3 day eviction posted to my door. Because of the laws here in ca, I got a continuance on my 3 days... because my 3rd day landed on sat I had it carry over into mon. I slept 8hrs Thursday night got up fri morning and didn't sleep until ties morning. I tried to save as much as I could but I was working alone. My sister, 5 days late in her pregnancy, drove her van. I packed my wife's things and my son's things before I worked on mine... I don't really regret the loss of my things... I'm more sad for the things I didn't have time to save, like our wedding china. I was able to save the antique furniture and the 3000$$$ memeryfoam mattress. In 5 days I lost my marriage, my son and my home. I'm currently staying with my sons godparents but only long enough to wipe out my debts and get funds together to get a new place. Due to space at my new dwelling place, everything that's in storage stays in storage... this includes my pipes and tobac. I wont see my 3lds o' tobac or my pretty pipes for 5mnths. The wifey is adamant about divorce and doesn't want to work it out, says she don't love
me anymore. I'm hopeful she'll see reason and change her mind but she's a stubborn little fireball... Irish and Japanese and if I push her she'll go Mt Fiji on me in a heartbeat. This is byfar the $h!ty3$t situation I have ever been in. Either way I loose... I give her the distance she wants, she drifts away. I don't give her that... then I'm smothering her and being pudgy and she drifts away. Since ties I have been getting regular sleep though.
night went home wed morning to find a 3 day eviction posted to my door. Because of the laws here in ca, I got a continuance on my 3 days... because my 3rd day landed on sat I had it carry over into mon. I slept 8hrs Thursday night got up fri morning and didn't sleep until ties morning. I tried to save as much as I could but I was working alone. My sister, 5 days late in her pregnancy, drove her van. I packed my wife's things and my son's things before I worked on mine... I don't really regret the loss of my things... I'm more sad for the things I didn't have time to save, like our wedding china. I was able to save the antique furniture and the 3000$$$ memeryfoam mattress. In 5 days I lost my marriage, my son and my home. I'm currently staying with my sons godparents but only long enough to wipe out my debts and get funds together to get a new place. Due to space at my new dwelling place, everything that's in storage stays in storage... this includes my pipes and tobac. I wont see my 3lds o' tobac or my pretty pipes for 5mnths. The wifey is adamant about divorce and doesn't want to work it out, says she don't love
me anymore. I'm hopeful she'll see reason and change her mind but she's a stubborn little fireball... Irish and Japanese and if I push her she'll go Mt Fiji on me in a heartbeat. This is byfar the $h!ty3$t situation I have ever been in. Either way I loose... I give her the distance she wants, she drifts away. I don't give her that... then I'm smothering her and being pudgy and she drifts away. Since ties I have been getting regular sleep though.