MartinH
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So here is my dilemma. I have an almost 10 month old little boy. He's the sweetest little thing in the world to me, and my wife and I can't imagine life without him. But his sleeping habits are horrible. My wife and I are short with each other all the time, because of severe lack of sleep.
The doctor told us that we need to get him sleeping in his own bed, and this has been the worst experience with him to date. He screams for hours upon hours on end. We've been putting him in his own bed the last week and a half, and it's been torture for all of us. He screams the minute he even sees the bed and has a panicked look on his face that just breaks my heart. To hear him scream is just heart wrenching and I feel like the worst dad in the world.
Every morning I have to put him in his play-pen or his crib so that I can get ready while my wife sleeps, and he just wails. The worst part is that he's just getting over a pretty bad cold and his little voice is hoarse. You can't imagine how pitiful that sounds.
Of course, the entire thing is our fault as we held him through the night the first several months of his life. He came a couple of weeks early and he was so small, that we thought doing that would help him grow faster.
In the end, I need some advice!!! How do I deal with this? I feel terrible leaving him in the crib, his crying just breaks my heart, but we get nothing done. I don't even want to tell you how little sleep we get. A good night is 5 hours. My wife and I don't even have time to clean the house properly because he's so clingy. Forget any real alone time. We try to have nightly "TV dates" as we call them, and the little bugger won't sleep past 10:30 usually. He generally wants to eat between 11 and midnight, and will go back to sleep if he comes to bed with us. Going back to his crib is almost impossible without sleepless hours listening to him scream his little lungs out. Of course, he hyperventilates and sobs, even has tears at times.
I think you can see how this just wrenches me apart.
Any advice would be heartily welcomed!
Thanks brothers!
The doctor told us that we need to get him sleeping in his own bed, and this has been the worst experience with him to date. He screams for hours upon hours on end. We've been putting him in his own bed the last week and a half, and it's been torture for all of us. He screams the minute he even sees the bed and has a panicked look on his face that just breaks my heart. To hear him scream is just heart wrenching and I feel like the worst dad in the world.
Every morning I have to put him in his play-pen or his crib so that I can get ready while my wife sleeps, and he just wails. The worst part is that he's just getting over a pretty bad cold and his little voice is hoarse. You can't imagine how pitiful that sounds.
Of course, the entire thing is our fault as we held him through the night the first several months of his life. He came a couple of weeks early and he was so small, that we thought doing that would help him grow faster.
In the end, I need some advice!!! How do I deal with this? I feel terrible leaving him in the crib, his crying just breaks my heart, but we get nothing done. I don't even want to tell you how little sleep we get. A good night is 5 hours. My wife and I don't even have time to clean the house properly because he's so clingy. Forget any real alone time. We try to have nightly "TV dates" as we call them, and the little bugger won't sleep past 10:30 usually. He generally wants to eat between 11 and midnight, and will go back to sleep if he comes to bed with us. Going back to his crib is almost impossible without sleepless hours listening to him scream his little lungs out. Of course, he hyperventilates and sobs, even has tears at times.
I think you can see how this just wrenches me apart.
Any advice would be heartily welcomed!
Thanks brothers!